Brazil, I had just decided to live near the beach after leaving a big company. Decided to work for a smaller company of a friend, with unix, erp integration, aws, ecommerce and coding, but remotely, with more quality of life. Traveling to the office for meetings and planning just once a week.

It worked out quite well, working remotely allowed me to go to the beach almost every day, fishing, cooking (I love it!), boat trips and taking care of my garden.

Being a touristic place, I could meet people from all over the world, but I was feeling a bit lonely.

A friend of mine introduced me to couchsurfing, and it was quite nice to know people would gently offer their couch for a foreigner. By this time I hadnt traveled much for fun, just for work. If somebody else could do the same for me if I was traveling, it would be a nice idea.

So I setup an account, and after some days I got someone asking for a couch. She was the third that arrived on my place. I will tell about the others later, not bcz they are less important, but now I feel like talking about Argentina.

She asked to stay for 1 week, was Argentinian, traveling alone. She was maybe 34, blonde, same height, not much thin but nice body and very sympathic.

Upon arriving, she asked for the bathroom for a long shower, bcz it was a long trip and she was quite tired. I presented her the bathroom, and she came to talk later. She discovered that it was in fact a bedroom and not a couch. I showed her the premises, invited her to dinner, explained that I was working from home and she could come and go as she was pleased. Also I told her about the nice beaches.

Next day we had a boat trip with a company from a friend of mine. We arrived back home, I worked a bit more, had dinner, talked about her life back in Argentina, how she broked up with her fiance and decided to go on a trip around the world, after that each of us went to our rooms and slept.

The next day I wasnt planning to go out, so worked all day and she went to visit the touristic spots. She was calm and nice, a good company. I was working at the varanda and she was reading a book in the hammock nearby me and the garden. We talked a bit about past sex partners, she told me some adventures she had, I told some of mine too. It was a nice mood. The sex feeling was already in the air, we both had showered about 1 hour ago, and I felt we were both in the mood for it, but I needed to make the first move.

That night I needed to go back to the city to a meeting in the office, and I knew if something had to happen, needed to be now – but I wouldnt like to be intrusive or unpleasant.

I approached her, she was wearing a tiny dress just above the knee, and put my hand on her knee and asked if I could ask her an intimate question, if she would be offended at all.

She told me I could ask her, and I asked if I could give her a kiss to feel the sensation of her lips. She told me sure, you can. And that she wasnt sure I wanted it till the time I put my hands of her knees.

We started kissing, she on the hammock while I was on the chair. The kiss was passionate, intense, wet. My hands started to explore her breasts, and I felt by the nipples she was feeling good.

We both got up, hands under her dress, tiny white cottom underwear, and went to my bed.

As almost always I kissed and touched her a lot, did some oral sex until she almost had the first orgasm, than stopped, and started the penetration. We tried a lot of positions. We kissed and slept together.

I got up in the middle of the night, left her a note to take care of the house (hoping she wasnt gonna steal everything!) and went to Rio for a meeting in the company.

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The Plastic Artist

This was Serbia. I was living alone in this flat, managing servers and coding for a Brazilian company, remotely. At night, if the mood was good, I would go to the clubs.

She appeared in one of these underground clubs in a Friday night. She was maybe 45, blonde, not much thin but with a nice body.

It was winter time, we were wearing lots of clothes. I was flerting with another girl by the time, but that was taking too long and I got interested on her. We started chatting while the other girl disappeared, touching, kissing. Almost automatic mode. We were quite drunk, and started to kiss too much, to the point I thought it was better to exchange phones and continue that “talk” later. She had lived in Italy some time ago, and we could speak English and Italian quite well – she said it was good to improve her Italian.

Back home, after 1 or 2 days I called her to come over. We had drinks, she talked about her job as an artist, about the exposition she was preparing, her boss that was sometimes also her lover, and her son about 15 years old.

We both were just for the sex, no big deal, and that was fine for us both.

But something unusual happened here, despite my experience performing oral sex, I couldnt make her had an orgasm in the first time. I was quite bothered, bcz the last time something like that happened was like 10 years ago with a girlfriend that had lubrification problems. She told me she couldnt come easily, and I was “almost” ok with that.

Of course I invited her again, made some oral sex, but this time I focused on going really like super slow on the penetration and cuddling. It worked out and I got happy to feel her coming.. the sensation of the pussy tightening in your penis during an orgasm is something that gives me a really special pleasure.

She left a brawl at my place, didnt knew if it was on purpose (to return later to get it!) or not.

We still met a couple of times more.

After some time I got a bad feeling, and we didnt saw each other anymore.

It was a nice person to talk, dance, and a nice lover.

I should have gone to at least one exposition of her, when she invited me to do so, and I regret not doing it.

I had this stable job at the post office administration, I was a federal employee, nice income and benefits, bureaucratic. Was safe, the kind of stuff people enter and leave just to retire or die. I met this girl while on office, which I will call Diane, she was finishing Production Engineering, and we started dating.

Even being quite young, I was intelligent and hardworker, so after a couple of years I got promoted to head a division in the department. I was managing contracts worth some millions to do vehicle maintanence and manage about 40 federal workers.

After some months on the job, realizing I was not so happy, I left the job (some people thoght I was crazy!) and went to study computer sciences in a federal university, with a lab trainee income. Diane and I continue to date, some break ups, I was a bit unfaithful also.

Sometimes Diane would visit me in the university, and we had fun at the computer lab after everybody was out.

In the university I met this girl which I will call Lay. Hair till the neck, not so thin but not overweighted, nice smile. I had problems with calculus and she would like to learn to code a bit better, so it was a win-win situtation.

Back at Lay’s place we did studied, but also we kissed a bit, and I was happy to touch her gently, so she had an orgasm in my hands. She was into boys and/or girls. I am sure if her mom didnt arrived, we would have done more nice things.

I had a dream, to take both Diane and Lay to my bed at the same time. I needed a plan. I was sure that for Lay was all fine, but Diane was a bit more conservative, and by the time I was the only man she had (I believed so!)

Lay was having photo lessons, I saw an opportunity to make a trip with both girls to the beach so I could try to setup something.

Diane, Lay and I were on the beach, I made room for both, and they started some shooting. Lay’s hands were adjusting her to this, that position. They had a small kiss, but nothing else. Didnt worked.

Later I was back to the beach with Diane alone, in a really desert spot, we brought some towels and undressed, started kissing and touching. Was almost paradise. Then a buggy car came from far away, with some turists, they were like rallying, approached (we didnt heared them at all!!), made some fun of us, and left. The mood was gone, we didnt finished at all.

We packed our stuff, entered back in the car, and headed home.

The security conference was nice, lots of folks to talk to about technology, electronics and hacking, interesting talks at night in a pub. The girl from the organization was there with a lot of other people, and a friend of mine from Rio de Janeiro.

The young lady was skinny, blonde, of Italian ancestry and really sympathic. She and my friend kissed a bit, and we arranged for a drinking with another girl friend of her, so I could talk with someone.

We had drinks, talked a lot, and made an arrangement to meet back in Rio, the 4 of us, in a beach house of my family. I was imagining a weekend of lots of sex, drinks and sunny beach – that didnt happened.

I had to travel to Chile some days later to implement some Unix systems for another telecom company, the Sao Paulo girl was in another state in another security conference, and my Rio friend was in Rio in his new appartment.

We managed to arrange things ok, but the girl that was supposed to be my company gave up in the last minute, the Sao Paulo girl was already in a flight from Brasilia to Rio, and I was in my way to Brazil from Chile.

I couldnt talk to my friend of Rio (later he told me that he was with another woman and couldnt get rid of her), so I called my sister and asked her to pickup the girl and make her comfortable.

So I was saved by my sis, she arranged a ladies night with a girl she didnt knew, but I told she was an ok person, I arrived at Brazil and got a call to a party, so I headed to a party with luggage and everything. Next morning I arrived at my sis, picked up the girl, tried to make contact with friend from Rio again, without lucky, so I took her out to have something to eat and later to a belly dance presentation of a girlfriend of a mate of mine from our motorcycle club.

We finished at a nice bar, got some snacks and beer and I told her – sorry girl, I cant reach the guy you are looking for. She told me no problem, and she was ok with that. Later we kissed and headed back to the house of the belly dance girl.

This was maybe 3 am, and we started sex. Was really nice, we took breaks to smoke, some more beer, and returned to the bed like 5 times. I believe we finished about 9 am. I took her to a cab and sent her to the airport – her family was waiting in Sao Paulo.

We still had more contact after this, some more kisses and meetings in Sao Paulo. I briefly met her family, but thats for another time.

This was Mexico. I was installing systems for a telecom company, big and cold datacenter, lots of routers, switchs, F5 Big IP, conference calls and engineers from like 5 different multinationals.

People were nice in general, with small exception of some engineers that made some mistakes in the software and did not openly admitted it, even after showing them some proof with tcpdump.

During the stay I tried lots of tequila, eat algave worms (tequila taste), and tried a lot of Mexican food.

There was this secretary stationed in the lobby, beautiful dark skin, long black hair, almond shaped eyes and beautiful body – she was also a really sympathic person. We used to talk everyday, but I thought it was business as usual, when you have to greet different people. I already tried the nightlife of the place going to some nightclub, had paid sex with a nice lady in one of these clubs.

One day that I believe was thursday, I asked her if she knew somewhere to dance and have drinks, bcz saturday was arriving. She said she knew, and could show me. I asked if we could go together, and she accepted. We were going together with an engineer from another country, Peru or Argentina, dont remember well.

We got a cab, arrived at this pub, had lots of drinks, she told me she loved black babies – clearly a tip she would like to have some sex (or actually babies!!!!), danced a bit, she was wearing a dark, tiny dress. Unfortunately I had too much booze, we were heading back home in te cab, we left the other guy into his hotel. I put my head on her lap in the backseat of the cab, she kissed me, and sure she was after more, but I was totally wasted, and I slept. Next I remember we left her at home, I headed back to my hotel, and slept like forever.

Next day was my flight, I woke up and knew was totally screwed. Put my clothes, checked out of the room, and got a cab to the airport.

I was supposed to give a speech the next day at a security conference in Sao Paulo, Brazil, and my flight was to Rio de Janeiro. I missed the flight bcz failed to arrived 2 hours in an international flight. After lots of talking, the guy at the air company told me – Ok, I can help you, but I cannot get you a ticket to Rio, we only have vacancy on a place to SAO PAULO. I almost jumped of happiness. Not only after missing the flight to Rio with more stops, I got a direct flight to the city where I was supposed to give a speech about reverse engineering ATM Skimmers.

I arrived at Sao Paulo with a big hangover, happy bcz I didnt had to pay extra for a Rio-Sao Paulo flight, carrying a big Mexican sombrero and a nice Tequila bottle, gave the talk at the security conference, and met this young lady that was working at the conference. This lady got interested in a friend of mine, so we setup some drinks later, she brought another girl friend, so we were 2 couples.

Till today I regret drinking that much that night, the woman was nice, beautiful, eager for sex, and I lost myself to too much Tequila.

Later this young lady from Sao Paulo and I had a brief history, but thats for another time…

Names are not necessary, nor dates.

This was Germany, she was 18 years old, I was 35.

She arrived at the hostel about 2 days after me, stayed in the same mixed room, with 4 double beds, came with an older man, maybe 45 years old – I thought he was her father, but he wasn’t. And he didnt stayed either in the room, just the young lady.

She was taking German classes to learn the language, I had just came from Italy after visiting an ex-girlfriend.

After a couple of days the girl and the older guy had a fight, and they broke up. About the same time the German woman I was seeing had to travel, and because of a missunderstanding, she stopped talking with me via WhatsApp (later turned out one of my messages wasnt delivered to her).

We were in the lobby, drinking some vodka and beer, she asked to sit with the head on my lap, I started playing with her hair, and we kissed. Later we went back to our shared room. Separate beds. We slept.

In the next day I told her I was upset, bcz of the fight with the German girl I was seeing, she came to comfort me in the chair I was sitting, she hugged me and I felt well. My hands slipped inside her jeans, and I started touching her pussy, she was getting really wet, hugged me stronger, I kissed her neck, and then she had an orgasm into my hands and jumped out of my lap saying: Wow! I smelled my hands, sweet pussy smell, and kept thinking if something more was coming…

We started to go out together often, she introduced me a cheap and nice chinese restaurant where we had some food together, we also went together to buy some groceries – she enjoyed fruits a lot.

In the hostel, one morning we woke up, she went to the bathroom, later I was there, soon all the roommates were out. We went to my bed together, she told me she never had a black guy for sex, and she was really wet bcz of that. We had a lot of fun. A roommate entered the room while we were having sex, and we kind of stayed a bit shy, but then we just continued the sex.

My soon-to-be girlfriend came back from the trip with her colleague, I stayed together on her appartment more often, till finally we solved the misunderstanding (the undelivered WhatsApp message) – and we almost got into dating.

Back into the hostel, I explained to the Riga girl my situation, that I was in an almost-serious relationship, I couldnt kiss her or have sex with her anymore, otherwise I would feel guilty.

We still had more sex together, she was also seeing someone else, but we knew it was just fun and could not lead to anything more serious.

I rented a room in Frankfurt, she visited me a couple of times, we had more sex, and we lost contact.